In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm a quiet, independent woman with a warm heart, a dry sense of humour and a curious mind. I enjoy good conversation, old movies, gardening, growing things, crochet and making things with my hands. I'm happiest with someone who can appreciate both comfortable silence and completely ridiculous conversations. I'm not interested in playing games or collecting superficial chats. I'd rather get to know one person properly and see whether something genuine develops. I'm affectionate, loyal and straightforward, and I value kindness, honesty, humour and mutual respect.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature man who knows who he is and is comfortable being himself. Someone independent, with his own interests and friendships, but who also genuinely enjoys having a partner to share life with. I'd like someone who values honesty, loyalty, affection and good conversation, and who isn't interested in games or superficial dating. A good sense of humour is important — life is too short to take yourself seriously all the time. I'd love a relationship where we can enjoy each other's company, but also give each other space to pursue our own interests. Most of all, I'm looking for someone who wants a genuine partnership: two independent people choosing to build a life together.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Mossel Bay (Heiderand), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
44 | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Grey | |
Christian Denomination: |
Other | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Botswana | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 55 | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Large | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Christian Denomination: |
Apostolic; Interdenominational; Church of Christ; House Church; Lutheran; Methodist; NGK/DRC | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Faith: |
Very important in my life |
Church Involvement: |
I'm involved in Church activities |
Hair Style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Knitting; Reading; Sewing; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; French; German; Greek; Japanese; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Exotic pet(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Feelings about using Faith Connections: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |