In His Own Words
About Him
I'd say I'm laid-back but not passive. I've learned over the decades that most things aren't worth a heated argument. I listen more than I talk, and I try to extend the same grace to others that I'd want for myself. That said, I'm steady and dependable—when I say I'll do something, I do it.
Humor: Yes, I'm funny in a dry, gentle way. Not a jokester, but I love wordplay, noticing life's little ironies, and laughing at myself when I misplace my glasses (again). I think laughter is holy medicine.
Serious vs. light: I lean toward the thoughtful side, but I don't dwell in heaviness. I care deeply about faith, family, and integrity, but I also know how to enjoy a good cup of coffee, a sunset, or a silly game of cards.
Openness: I'm fairly open emotionally, though it took me years to get here. I can share my struggles—fears about aging, grief over lost loved ones, hopes for the future—without needing someone to fix me. I'm also a good listener when you need to unload.
Shy? Not really shy, but I'm an introvert at heart. Small groups (2-4 people) are my sweet spot. Large, noisy gatherings wear me out. I'd rather have a long, honest conversation on the porch than work a crowded room.
Other traits: Patient, curious (I read history and theology for fun), a little old-fashioned (I hold doors, write thank-you notes, and believe a handshake means something). I'm not high-energy, but I'm present.
Flaws (because honesty matters): I can be stubborn about small routines, and I sometimes retreat into my own head when stressed. I'm not great at texting—I'd rather hear your voice or see your face. And I have a habit of saying "well, let me think about that" before answering almost anything.
If you're still curious, feel free to ask more. I believe real connection starts with slow, honest self-revelation.
About His Ideal Match
I seek for a rooted in faith, companionship, and mutual respect—centered on Christ as our foundation.
I'm looking for a committed, loving partnership—ideally leading toward marriage or a covenant relationship. Not a casual arrangement, but a "seasoned" love where we walk together in prayer, worship, and service. Someone to share quiet mornings, church Sundays, simple meals, conversations about God's word, and perhaps volunteer work or travel that honors our values.
Genuine faith in Christ - Loves the Lord, reads Scripture, prays, and seeks to live out grace and humility.
Above all, I'm not looking for someone "perfect"—just a faithful companion to finish this leg of the race well, side by side, until the Lord calls us home.
If any of this resonates with you, I'd be glad to hear your heart in return.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa |
Location: |
Hartbeespoort, North-West, South Africa |
Gender: |
Male |
Age: |
68 |
Height: |
189cm (6' 2.4") |
Body Type: |
Average |
Looks: |
Average |
Hair Colour: |
Grey |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel |
Christian Denomination: |
Church of Christ |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian |
Home Language: |
English |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me |
Want Children: |
Maybe |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker |
Drinking: |
Ask me later |
Education: |
PhD / Post Doctoral |
Occupation: |
Other |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | |
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age Range: |
54 - 89 | |
Height: |
Any | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Any | |
Eye Colour: |
Any | |
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | |
Christian Denomination: |
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Ethnicity: |
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Home Language: |
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Other Languages: |
Any | |
Relationship Status: |
Any | |
Have Children: |
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Want Children: |
Any | |
Daily Diet: |
Any | |
Smoking: |
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Drinking: |
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Education: |
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Occupation: |
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Income: |
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- Non-negotiable
More About Him
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