In His Own Words
About Him
First and most vitally, a lover and follower of Christ the King of kings; born from a now dying generation (80's) filled with love and respect for people from all ethnicity; love the indoors but don't mind the outdoors occasionally; love reading (mostly my Bible , Christian material and podcasts; watching movies either at home on my couch or at the theater is still an enjoyable norm for me; like to keep fit and active at the gym ( 3 to 4 times a week); love food but don't like the pot. My pet-hates : can't handle alcoholism, smoking, partying and being shouted at when attempting to communicate (I'm not a child and neither was I raised in a hostile environment where two people near each other would scream to each other). I love nature, animals and serving in my local church and community with the gifts God has given me. It would be a delight to know how God has changed and is changing your life to look like that of Christ. Shall we chat about it over a lunch / dinner date?
About His Ideal Match
She is equally a lover and follower of Christ and has her life surrendered to Him. This is evident in her speech, behavior and life. She enjoys being home with her potential lover or anywhere for that matter just as long as she enjoys his company. She enjoys cooking and other domestic things and does not consider that slavery but servant-hood with the support of her potential lover. She is a lady; dresses and speaks like-wise. She is wise with her finances, has a teachable and calm spirit and is not afraid to speak her heart with respect. She is open to some form of activity to keep mentally and physically fit and healthy; isn't overly dependent and isn't proud to ask her potential lover for help and counsel whenever she requires it. She is a lover of God's people, the local church, nature and animals. Deal breaker : Unbeliever in Christ.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Rustenburg (Geelhout Park), North-West, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
39 | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
None (Bald) | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Christian Denomination: |
Baptist | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Tswana | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Sesotho; Xhosa; Zulu | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Sun City (North-West, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 38 | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Christian Denomination: |
Baptist | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured | ||
Home Language: |
English; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Faith: |
Very important in my life |
Church Involvement: |
I'm involved in Church activities; I attend prayer groups |
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Mild; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Religious; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Reading; Shopping; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Weight training |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Fast food; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Politics: |
Ultra-conservative |
Feelings about using Faith Connections: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |
