About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
38 | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Christian Denomination: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Portuguese | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Food Services | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 34 | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Christian Denomination: |
Catholic | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English; Portuguese | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About Him
I'm a down to earth guy who loves to read, listen to music and watch movies very much. I believe laughter is the one thing in life that you can never have too much of and my favourite quote which I live by and is pretty self-explanatory is by Oscar Wilde: "Be yourself because everyone else is already taken." I love to write. Dream of becoming a novelist and making a living of publishing books some day... (it better happen soon because sometimes I dream about it at work and that could get me fired, so I'm going to need that to fall back on!)
I'm not very skilled at sales pitches, much less when I'm talking about myself but I do believe, despite all evidence to the contrary, that there really is someone out there who is right for each and every one of us, who is looking for a life partner. So, maybe she can meet me halfway here?
About His Ideal Match
This is such a hard to question to answer because people aren't made of cardboard, we change as the years go by and with those changes comes different needs. I guess I just hope to find someone here who will change with me as the years go by so that we can keep complimenting each other.
But there are certainly a few 'non-negotiable'traits I can list: Honesty, a sense of humour and humility. I hate arrogance, that can make the most beautiful girl in the room ugly in an instant. There is a very fine line between confidence and arrogance and my ideal match must know exactly where it is. She must be a movie and music lover at least if not a book lover.
My ideal match has to be a catholic because despite my sometimes foul mouth, I am a practicing catholic who takes his religion fairly seriously and just like I won't change who I am for anyone, I don't expect anyone to do that for me either. So, it would be great if we could get that right from the get-go.
What His Friends Say
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More About Him
Faith: |
Very important in my life |
Hair Style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Valued Qualities: |
Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; New Age; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
Interests: |
Card games; Reading; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Boxing; Cricket; Pool |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using Faith Connections: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
